“Life is not what we expect it should be; rather it is how we make out of it”

Sometimes I wonder if people think that life is supposed to be a bed of roses! Some people have everything they want or do they really have everything they need? I think life is what we make of it. If we work hard and try to be kind to others life will be easier. But nothing is free in life we all have to work at what we want to have in this life! Do you think that life should be a bed of roses? Roses have thorns!  
it would be much annoying for me. I would like to have my own fights, i would like to have my own goals, after which to run as a child, i would like to change myself, to do useful stuff for the others and for myself. If i miss all that, i can't imagine what it would be. It would be so easy, that there won't be a sense of the life at all, for me.
we think that we need something, but when we get it, we want something else. This is why people need clear view of what they want. More thinking, less dreaming for us to be pleased at the end when we have the thing we wanted to have.
If we dream too much and invest a lot of time, money and power in reaching something, which at the end will disappoint us, we will loose the chance to enjoy our having.